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10 Must Reads: Marriage Favorites.

10 Must Reads: Marriage Favorites.

Non-new information about me:

It’s no secret that I am quite fond of reading and obsessively fond of lists. And it’s most definitely no secret that I cherish my husband and absolutely adore being his wife.

So naturally, I have invested an enormous amount of time blending these passions. I have read countless books on marriage and wifehood, I have admired and taken mental notes from couples who are “Hashtag Goals”, and I have tirelessly pursued these wisdom bits in my great effort to live out the kind of marriage that leaves a legacy. And while I’m still brand new and have a ton to apply and learn, these books have been literal game changers.

Think about it, the bible narrative begins and ends with a marriage. The marital covenant and relationship, was always and still is, intended to reflect the covenant and relationship between Jesus Christ and His Church. And to top it all off, the first spiritual attack from Satan himself, against mankind was in infiltrating the marriage dynamic. This is heavy stuff, people! With positively, heavy benefit and reward!

I want a marriage that looks nothing like the junk that gets high ratings on TV. I want a marriage that gives hope and reflects God’s goodness. I want a marriage that is relentless in our joint pursuit of Christ. I want to treat my husband and my marriage like the precious gifts they are. I want a marriage that makes the hopeless romantic swoon and the awkward preteen make weird faces and roll their eyes. I want a marriage that makes the skeptic and broken hearted believe again. I want a marriage that makes our future children feel secure and loved. I want a marriage that makes people wonder if we’re “honeymooners”.

I want a marriage that is other - a marriage that actively chooses “I do” every day. Don’t you?

Now, I understand that reading supplemental books will not make all of that happen. But pair that with taking God at His word, being obedient to His design, and relying on and claiming His promises for your marriage – and you two will be unstoppable, no matter your story, walk, age, or stage.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about God, it’s that no one and no situation is too far gone for God’s grace, reconciliation, and transformation.

It was challenging to narrow it down to this short list of marriage favorites but those included have each marked and shaped my perspective of #WifeLife. They have opened up a world of Christ centered exploration, understanding, some awesomely painful opportunities for personal growth, genuine joy, and a whole lot of excitement and hope!


10 Must Reads: Marriage Favorites.

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A Woman After God’s Own Heart

by Elizabeth George

For singles, marrieds, and mothers alike. If you want to grow in your pursuit of feminine Godliness, collect a group of your best gals and walk through this treasure of a book together!


Creative Counterpart: Becoming the Woman, Wife, and Mother You Have Longed To Be

by Linda Dillow

This book is honest and creatively genius! You will learn to value and be freed by your God given role as a woman, wife, and mother.


The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

by Gary Chapman

I can't recommend this book enough! You will finally understand why all those loving gestures have gone unnoticed. And you will learn how to really give and receive love! Plus it includes a quiz - who doesn't love quizzes?


The Power of A Praying Wife

by Stormie Omartian

Prayer is the most powerful weapon of love a wife can have on her at all times. Stormie breaks down heavy topics to make sure your husband is covered from head to toe: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.


His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair-Proof Marriage

by Williard F. Harley Jr.

This book is a huge eye opener to the causes and realities in which affairs occur in the least likely of marriages. Figuring out our spouses individual and most essential needs, including our own, is absolutely vital to the fidelity and health of our marriages. It's phenomenal!


Letters To My Daughters: The Art of Being A Wife

by Babara Rainey

For wives and future wives, this is hands down one of THE BEST. With it's beautiful imagery visually as well as depicted in her use of words, Barbara truly delivers an honest and in depth look at the wonder of wifehood.


Sacred Marriage

by Gary Thomas

Another gem to add to the collection. Gary will walk you through the challenge of viewing and tapping into your marriage as a portal to the kind of holiness it was originally intended to bestow on both you and your spouse.


Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires and The Respect He Desperately Needs

by Emerson Eggerichs

While we all may have unique needs for our individual personalities, the Bible makes the clear distinction that there are two needs that trump them all.


The Respect Dare

by Nina Roesner

Our men were made with an innate need for respect. And while challenges can be fun for some or like pulling teeth for others, investing these forty days in obedience to God, to creatively honor our husbands with the respect they most desire will leave you feeling closer than ever before!


You And Me Forever: Marriage In Light of Eternity

by Francis and Lisa Chan

The unity you will find in your marriage when you prioritize an eternal purpose as your joint end goal, will not just bring you closer to one another but ultimately to God and His Kingdom. Marriage was meant for SO much more.


On My To Read List...


Have any marriage favorites of your own? Let me know in the comments below! My Amazon wish list will be forever growing and I'm not mad at that!

Happy Reading!

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